メンタル・イデア・ラボの本城ハルです。
“自己愛”と聞くと、どんなイメージを持ちますか?
自己愛は、自分を認めありのままを受け入れていくことで育まれていく自己肯定感のベースになります。
ただ、自己愛が強過ぎる(自分大好き過ぎ/自分大切過ぎ)とかなり厄介で、周りから疎まれる存在になってしまうのも事実です。
その自己愛オバケの特徴を見ていきましょう。
他者から賞賛されること、承認欲求が強い
→SNSで「いいね」の数、賞賛コメントが少ないと自尊感情が低下してしまう。自分が期待する反応がないと「自分はもっと評価されるはずの人間なのに」と落ち込んだり、評価されなかったことに対して怒りを覚えます。
他者から特別な配慮や敬意を持った扱いをされることを期待し(それを当たり前と考えている強者もいる)、それが叶えられないと不満・鬱憤を溜め怒りを覚えやすい。
→自分を特別扱いしてほしいかまってちゃんにありがちですね。成り金もこのタイプが多い傾向にあります。
自己愛強過ぎタイプで有能感が強い人。
大昔に大企業のお偉いさんだったであろう(あるいは地区のお偉いさんとか?)今はただの人が「俺を誰だと思ってるんだ!(怒)」とコンビニで息巻いて突っ掛かりまくりなのを見たことがありますが、まさに「俺スゴイ俺エライ」と、この自己愛拗らせ倒した自己愛オバケの典型です。社会的地位の高かった男性に多い傾向にあります。なかなか滑稽ですが、カラまれる側はたまりませんね。
自分の不安や不満、感情を調整して表出コントロールしずらく、他者に感情の尻拭いを持っていきがち、あるいはぶつける。
簡単に言うと、八つ当たりですね。当たられた側は不愉快極まりないと思います。
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また、自己愛の強過ぎる人はとても傷つきやすい人でもあるので、傷つかないために他者の言動に反応する心の防衛反応が過敏で攻撃的になりやすいと言えます。実際、自己愛が強過ぎる人は他者に対し「えっ?そんなことで?」「どこに地雷あった?」という場面で攻撃的な態度を取ります。ある意味、このタイプも生きづらいだろうと思います。
いろんな“生きづらさ”をテーマに、次回は【メンヘラと呼ばれる人たち】について考えてみます。
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