反動形成〜防衛規制の話【2】

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【1】で、反動形成はフロイトが提唱した、自分の立場を守ったり上手く人間関係を維持しようとする防衛規制という概念なのだとお話しました。

働き過ぎる防衛規制は良くないのですが、防衛規制には無意識に不安や恐れ、葛藤を回避、緩和しようとして働く誰にでもある心を守るための大切な作用でもあるのです。

防衛規制はさまざまな不安や葛藤を何とか処理しようとする場面でも表れます。

<例>
●欲しいブーツがある→すぐに流行は終わるだろうと諦める。
●成績が悪い友達に「もっと頑張らなきゃ」と説教してみる。
●「明日は運動する、ダイエットもする」と今日はいっかとドカ食いする。
●私だって頑張ってるんだから、多少ダンナに迷惑かけてもいっか、と家事をサボる。
●あの人は私を嫌っているんだと思い込もうとする。

このように防衛規制を使うことで、苦しかったり認めたくないことを一時的に自己正当化して心を守ることができます。防衛規制という心の機能があるおかげで、私たちは衝動的、感情的な欲求に飲み込まれず社会に適応できていると言えます。

ただ、この防衛規制は安全装置とはいえ一時的なもので、言い方を変えれば心の自由を奪うものでもあるので、防衛規制という機能をずっと働かせたままだとメンタルバランスを崩し、心の病気になってしまう可能性が高まります。

バランスよく防衛規制を使うことで、ストレスの多い社会で上手く折り合いをつけながら生きていっているのが私たちですが、その多くは無意識での働きなので、自分でコントロールするのは難しく、防衛規制という機能が働いているのだと意識もできないことがほとんどです。

理想は、

しなやかで柔軟な防衛規制

です。

頭でわかっていても、私たちの感情や気持ちはいつも一定ではありませんから、精神的に余裕がなかったり疲れている時は“今の自分を直視しないようにする心の作用”である防衛規制はしなやかで柔軟には働きません。

【1】で“今”を感じるマインドフルネスのお話をしました。マインドフルネスには『無意識を意識する』『今ここ』を感じる練習があり、じっくり自分(と自分の内側)と向き合う瞑想が軸になっています。

練習をして慣れれば移動中の電車内、昼休みのわずかな時間でできるようになるマインドフルネスで、あなたも自分自身とじっくり向かい合ってみませんか。

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