アサーション:自己表現

メンタル・イデア・ラボの本城ハルです。

アサーションとは自分も他者も大切にした、やわらかな自己表現のことで、

コミュニケーションスキル

でもあります。まずどのような自己表現があるのかみていきましょう。

【アグレッシヴ・攻撃的自己表現】
私はOK、あなたはNOT OK(どうでもよい)。

【ノン・アサーティヴ・非主張的自己表現】
あなたはOK、私はNOT OK。

【アサーティヴな自己表現】
私もあなたもOK。

と3つのタイプに分かれます。

一つずつみていきましょう。

【アグレッシヴ・攻撃的自己表現】
①自分の意見、考え、気持ちははっきり言うが相手の意見、考え、気持ちは軽視、無視する。

②押し付けがましく相手に言うことを聞かせようとし、支配的。

③一方的な主張をし、相手の話を聞かない。

④感情的に罵ったり声を荒げる。

⑤他罰的で責任転嫁する。
【ノン・アサーティヴ】
①相手の意見、考え、気持ちばかりを窺い、相手に合わせる。

②自分の意見、考え、気持ちを表現しない。

③「ノー」と言えない。

④相手任せで諦めやすく消極的。

⑤ストレートに言わず遠回しな表現をする。

⑥他人本位で自己否定的。

⑦依存的、自己犠牲が強く卑屈になりがち。
【アサーティヴ】
①自分の意見、考え、気持ちを表現する時に、相手の気持ちにも十分配慮する。

②穏やかに主張でき、現実的な目標を追求する。

③自分にも相手にも素直であり、率直である。

④必要ならば譲歩、妥協してもよいと考えられる。

⑤積極的且つ歩み寄りの姿勢があり、自他協力的。

⑥自分の責任で行動。

アサーションに取り組む上で重要なポイントがあります。それは・・・。

自分には感情があり、自分の感情を大切にし表現してよい。 ➡︎ 自分は完璧な人間ではないが、人格を持った価値ある存在である、と認めること

自分と同様に、他者にも感情があり、相手からの「NO」や拒絶を受けるかもしれない覚悟を持つこと。

お互いに歩み寄って、お互いに納得がいく結論に向かおうとすること。

「いつでもアサーティヴであらねばならない」と考えないこと。➡︎ 自分の行動、考え、感情は自分自身で決めてよい。

他のコラムを挟みますが、次は具体的なアサーションの取り組み方について書いていこうと思います。

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